After visiting colleges for the past 6-8 months planning on making the big transformation of my life from high school to college, I have pretty much become seasoned in visiting colleges. I know where I want to go on the tours, if certain sessions will be valuable, or what opinions I should really take to heart. So I’m going to share my five tips to think about when evaluating a college and hopefully if you have not decided on a college yet, you can use these to sort out the good stuff in my opinion and the worthless stuff.
1. Don’t take everything a one person says to be true. Ask as many people as possible for their opinion on a particular college. - Whenever you are thinking about a college, you tend to ask someone you know or someone on the Internet about what they think of the college. If you ask one or two people from the college their personal opinion that they nail in your brain, you might get a biased opinion. You may THINK you have the same tastes as that person but there’s a good chance you are two very different people with very different attitudes in the “real” world when it comes to college. Ask as many people as possible for their opinion on a college.
2. Listen to speakers but don’t… - A speaker at a “campus day” or tour is always good to listen to when trying to become more informed with a college but them telling you how great it is and how much they love it is worth just about two cents and that’s it. I went to about 6 different college campus tours and everytime I was either talked to by a speaker, University president, or tour guide they told me they “did things at (Insert college name here) that they would have never been able to do” or they “followed their dreams”. You can’t listen to that type of stuff, you have to gather the facts and sort it from the opinions because you can follow your dreams and do almost anything at any University!
3. Stay for what you think is valuable - If you have any more college tours left in you this spring, always remember that you don’t have to stay the whole day for those tours, as most events go from early in the morning till late in the afternoon. However, I’d recommend staying for ATLEAST 2-3 hours unless you think the information is totally worthless to you. Why? I know it’s hot, boring, and your legs hurt but later on, you might wish you knew a little more about the college that you complained and whined through the whole tour of. I always made a point to stay for the introductory speech, then the department discussion, and then either a bus/trolley tour of the campus or city and maybe a residence hall tour if it was offered. Then of course, I ate lunch at the cafeteria to get a general feel for the num-nums.
4. Hang out with a college student… alone - Before visiting my first choice college, I was very apprehensive about the social life and the people that were there. I had believed in the stereotypes and I was expecting to see nerds wearing collared shirts and a sweater on their shoulders sipping tea and eating caviar elegantly. I was dead wrong and I found that out when I visited a friend of mine that went to the college.
This really is a BIG tip for me but I hesitate to list it because many parents still have not gone through the starting of the “let go” phase. Hell, many parents still haven’t started that phase when the day to move in rolls around but ya know, they have to let go eventually so why not now? By staying the night with the friend of mine, I not only met people and made friends, I got opinions and attended a social event in the process. You don’t have to get drunk either, just so you know, this isn’t a recommendation in disguise to suggest that if any parents happen to be reading.
5. Don’t sweat the small things - Even though your heart may have sank when your dad or the tour guide mentioned that the campus was “dry” (no alcohol) or freshman were not able to take cars, don’t rule out that college. Even though you think that they are absolute must-haves for you now, they are just distractions and things you will not care about after the first couple of months. If you really want to drink, you can find a way. If you really want to use a car, you can always find a ride or have your parents pick you up.
In conclusion, think about these tips, they will prove worthy to you even though you may have already done your touring for colleges. Just apply them to what you already know about the colleges you toured and it will make things a lot easier.